A Most Suitable Man!

For the third time in 6 weeks I find another man crossing my path. This one, however, being not only very suitable, but also very lovely!!!

Ended up going out with Bea tonight, somewhat randomly as it had been my intention to have a quiet night in!  As usual, we ended up down the local and it didn't take me long to spot a handsome chap across the bar!  As he was probably slightly out of my league, and I was feeling pretty 'fuck it', I thought I'd chance my arm, so smiled widely when he went past, and then did a bit of blatant clocking him for a while, followed by strategic bar visit when he went to get a drink.  I gave him a very wide smile and he said hello, followed by "I like your shoes, I clocked those earlier".  Bit random, but any opening is an opening...!  I responded with "I don't think they'd fit you", but he just said "I didn't mean for me" and then wandered off. So, not going well...

Not one to give up too easily, and with the ice broken, I strategically placed myself to be within arms distance to allow follow up of conversation.  Not five minutes later, after another smile from me, he suddenly reached across to take my wrist and started to talk about my tattoo, which is, apparently, one of four symbols on a Led Zeppelin album, and he has another of the four on his shoulder.  

We spent the next little while generally chit chatting, during which I discovered he is 39, lives in next large town, has a 7yr old son, has been separated from his sons Mum for about 12months (and spoke in a very positive way about the break up), works in business development, and was in the band playing before we had arrived.  All good so far, plus he's sober (driving), plus he is almost my perfect physical type!  Happy days!!

So, the night goes on.  Some chatting, some seperate time, some chatting again, and then about 12.45am, it's just me and him of our respective crowds and he suddenly gets all bashful before asking if I'd like to go out sometime :-)   I give him my number, get him to call while we're listening so we know it's in right, and then we continue chatting and mingling for another 45minutes or so before he and his mate make a move to go.  We say goodbye, agree be lovely to see each other again, and off he goes!

About 15minutes later I go to save his number in my phone and accidentally call him!!  After a desperate dash to cancel I realise it will probably show as a missed call, (and he'll assume I'm a stalker!!), so text to say "Sorry, was trying to save your number and called accidentally. Lovely to meet you. Speak soon! OG".  He responded with "Likewise, it was proper nice to meet you too. I've just realised, we didn't have that dance, dam!  Hopefully I'll get one soon...x", to which I responded "Definitely! x"

I think it's fair to say I am a happy bunny going to bed now!

A Most Unsuitable Man

Details to follow...

Hilarity

Literally a week after being wanked off in my hallway, Ollie has changed his Facebook status to 'In a Relationship'.  Not with me, thank fuck!

I never understand how you can change Facebook so quickly into something.  Bloody laughable :-)

Farewell Ollie!

So, after a week of bouncing backwards and forwards with flirty messages, my weekend did not result in me getting laid!

I text him yesterday morning just to say forget it, no worries, all cool;   I don't want him thinking me going incommunicado is as a result of arsiness!!  He hasn't responded, so deal done!

I can't be arsed with things being such hard work! Plus, I absolutely cannot sustain this level of twitchiness, and diy will only take you so far!

It is irritating though. I was out for a birthday in local town last night, and the place was literally full of boys!  Boys or old men!! Not a single one I would have considered even snogging!

I'm disappointed, as Ollie would have been a great option, and I really do need to get back on the horse; it has been far, far too long, and DM certainly isn't coming back to save the day.  That said, fortunately the mad, mad state I've been in for the last couple of weeks, because I was bad before Ollie came on the scene, (due to bloody DM messaging) and he kicked it up a notch, has abated and normal service can resume!

Besides. I may have another iron potentially in the fire... :-)

Why...

... is it so fucking complicated to find a friend with benefits?!!  For fucks sake, what is wrong with men these days?

Perhaps I'm odd, but having someone you can ring and go "fancy going pub for a few hours", or " fancy coming round and shagging me senseless ", or "I'm just headed home from a night out and wondered if you're up for a visit", should be every man's dream shouldn't it?!

Seems like nowadays men have to over think  everything and have lost the ability to think with their dicks!  It is more than a little frustrating!!!

The game goes on...

Well, after not responding to my message Tues morning, the game seemed back on when I messaged him Wed evening. He responded straight away, and had about an hour and a half of messaging throughout the evening.  He followed that up with messages through Thursday day, which was a new one, so all was looking good for a good day today, as we were both off work.

However!!  Today the boy is playing hard to get, leaving me more than bloody antsy!!!  Was planning a day of brief alone time, to get the itch out of the way, followed by a day in the pub, and then a hot and heavy session later!  Instead, I have had flirty messages but no bloody action!  I am more than a little frustrated!

Even text SG in my needy state, probably a good thing he's busy tonight!

Ollie

Have only just got to bed! And on a school night as well!

Following on from Saturday night's shenanigans, much messaging occurred Sunday evening, of amusing but interesting enough levels of flirty, and continued in to Monday evening, culminating in a late night visit from Ollie, last night.

After spending several hours chatting random shit, from the perils of crying rape, to the value of Gogglebox, it got to 3am, and we both needed to call it a night.  Despite the fact we'd just spent all that time on the sofa, no snogging occurred until he was leaving, which then resulted in a hot and heavy session in my hallway, resulting in him with his clock out and me with a very wet patch on the front of my dress!!  Not the classiest of starts but hey ho :-)

It wasn't the best sexual encounter I've ever had; far from it!  It was, however, very nice, and there were flashes of moments that may have the potential to develop.  He left not long after, slightly off, which may well be as a result of it being half three in the morning, but may equally be the start of a big freeze!

It's funny, as there are elements of how we interact that remind me very much of DM and I.  That very open communication right from the start, particularly sexually.  I have felt no qualms in being completely boldly with him, and could see that developing as time goes on, but I'm not sure there is that real Grrr factor that is so important, although we weren't in the best of circumstances, and I am trying to adjust to a chunked body frame, when I'm so used to lean!!

I'm interested to see how it develops, and will be disappointed if he now bails, but certainly won't be heartbroken!  Watch this space I guess....!